Myself
Understand patterns, Self Defense Mechanisms and what you may be operating from.
Explore Self →LIFE • RELATIONSHIPS • PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
What kind of life
are you creating?
Understand yourself more clearly. Connect to better conscious decisions. Build healthier relationships. Create the life you genuinely desire.
LFS
Where would you like to start?
Choose the area that feels most relevant right now.
Dating & Relationships
What is Dating Really? Let’s explore Dating, dating practices, dating culture, and Dating psychology. Let’s establish better dating outcomes and results.
Explore Relationships →My Relationship
Understand what's happening between you—and what it may take to build something healthier.
Explore Couples →My Life
Clarify what you desire and develop a strategy for creating it.
Explore Fulfillment →THE LIFE FULFILLING PROCESS
Understand. Reconnect. Create more consciously.
Much of life can be influenced by patterns, conditioning, Self Defense Mechanisms and automatic responses we rarely stop to examine. LFS helps you examine what's operating, understand it more clearly—and decide what you're going to do about it.
Observe→Understand→Reconnect→Choose→Connect→Fulfill
Explore the LFS Programs →WAYS TO WORK WITH LFS
Go as deep as you're ready to go.
Coaching
Apply LFS thinking to your life, circumstances, relationships, and goals.
Explore Coaching →Workshops
Focused experiences built around one LFS idea you can examine and apply.
Explore Workshops →Retreats & Experiences
Step outside your routine for reflection, connection, learning, and intentional creation.
Explore Retreats →RELATIONSHIPS
LOVE MATTERS
What is Love? Do you Love her/him? Let’s examine the so-called “Love Languages”.
What is the core of relationship? What should be established before entering a relationship?
ConnectionCompetencyCompatibility
Explore Relationships →LIFE & FULFILLMENT
What do you actually want?
Knowing what you don't want isn't the same as knowing what you desire. And saying what you desire isn't necessarily the same as creating it.
DESIRE→DECISION→INTENTION→ACTION→CREATION
The work ultimately prepares you to become increasingly capable of consciously creating—and manifesting—the life you genuinely desire.
Explore Life & Fulfillment
FOUNDER
Antonio Alacena
Author • Life Coach • Speaker • Observer
Antonio Nigel Alacena is a Certified Life Coach, author, speaker, and independent thinker whose work examines Self, relationships, decision, and intentional life creation.
About Antonio → Speaking →BOOKS
Ideas worth examining.
Understanding Trauma and Self Defense Mechanisms
What if some of what you experience as “you” isn't necessarily you?
Explore the Book →Sex, Dating and Relationships in the Age of Social Media
An examination of connection, presentation, dating and relationships in modern life.
Learn More →Start where you are.
You don't have to understand everything about yourself before you begin. You just need somewhere to start.
Find Your Starting Point